Hello, my lovelies!

I meant to share the post with you a little while ago, but life has been super busy! I do not want to go into too much detail, but I started a new job and have been on a few small adventures (with more to come), and things have been changing super quickly around me. I haven't had much time to stop and write, so it's nice that I can do so now!

It's no secret that I spent my birthday in Rome (back in March); it was, in fact, a dreamy long weekend holiday that was just gorgeous and bookish! Rome was my second solo trip, and I think I'm addicted to travelling alone? Especially when it means I can visit all the bookish spots I want. 

My birthday looked like this:

Keats-Shelley House Museum

Before the death of beloved writers John Keats and Percy Bysshe Shelley, they lived in small quarters in Rome. In 1909, the house was opened to the public as a museum and library. As a lover of literature and a writer myself, the Keats-Shelley house was at the top of my list to visit. I'm very glad it was because it was beautiful.

It was a very small museum, but it was powerful. You could see old texts of the writers, letters from close friends and even the bed Keats died in. 

The gift shop was quaint but lovely. I picked up a couple of poetry books, including a collection of poems about Rome. It was only natural that I found myself buying more books on my trip!


Birthday wish at the Trevi fountain

One of the first things I did on my birthday was head to the infamous Trevi fountain to make a birthday wish. I had, of course, seen many photos and videos of the beautiful fountain, but none of them had ever done it justice. It was truly beautiful, and many people flocked to see it and toss a coin.



Antico Caffé Greco

After my touristy exploration, I decided I needed a little midday treat at Antico CaffĂ© Greco. The establishment has been around since 1760 and is known as an 18th-century cafe and writer's haunt.  

I found this spot on an Instagram reel, and naturally, it had to be at the top of my list of places to visit in Rome. It did not disappoint. 

The decor was beautiful, the service was amazing, and it was definitely one of my favourite spots on the trip. 




Church of Saint Ignatius of Loyola

I'm not a religious person, but I appreciate the architecture and beauty of churches. I had seen many photos and videos of the Church of Saint Ignatius of Loyola, and I knew I had to come and see it for myself. Seeing the beautiful ceiling and artwork within the church was certainly a highlight of my trip to Rome.



Liberia Tuba

I ended my birthday night with a Cosmopolitan at the brilliant, bookish bar. The owners are lesbian, and it's a sapphic safe environment for queer people; it was only right I visited a place that embodies so many of my own beliefs. The atmosphere was amazing and I'm really glad I got to visit this great space!




My birthday in Rome was truly special! I had so much fun exploring, and even on the days around my birthday, I visited some amazing places! I ate incredible Italian food, took many photos, and just enjoyed my visit. The other days, I visited incredible spots like the Colosseum, Vatican City, Spazio 7 (a book cafe), and many more. 



I have decided to make it my annual tradition to wake up in a new country every birthday. I do have my heart set on Paris next year!

A Bookish Birthday in Rome

Saturday, 8 June 2024

 Hello, my lovelies!

I'm back from Rome (blog post about my trip pending), and I'm pleased to let you know that, as of March 23rd, you can access the Kindle version of The Moon is a Lesbian. It has 11 new poems. You can buy it now, or if you've got Kindle Unlimited, you can read it for FREE!



I'm ever so grateful for the ongoing support I've received with my poetry collection. I feel so lucky and loved! You can pick up your Kinde copy here. I also recently learned that if you're from somewhere other than the UK, you can order a physical copy from booksellers such as Barnes & Noble and the Bookshop. If you've already picked up a copy, thank you endlessly!

Thank you, as always, for reading my blog. It's been a creative outlet for me for many years, and I'm just grateful for anyone reading this post or who has ever read any post on my blog- it truly means the world!


Available on KU

Tuesday, 26 March 2024

Hello lovelies!

As some of you may know, on my 25th birthday last year, I published my very first poetry collection, The Moon is a Lesbian! It's almost the first anniversary, and I am still shocked at how much support I received and all the love people have given to it. It is a proud moment when people buy your books (some even take pictures with them and cry each time).  

 Publishing the collection was definitely a highlight of 2023. It made some great sales and, at one point, ranked 9 on Amazon's LGBTQ+ Anthologies list, which was just incredible. Since the release, I've been writing my heart out (as always) and have decided that on the year anniversary (23rd March 2024), I will be releasing a Kindle version of The Moon is a Lesbian. However, it will include some new poems!! So far, ten new poems, but more could be added between then and now!

I altered the cover slightly, wanting the Kindle version to look somewhat different from the physical copy. So, here is the cover for the Kindle edition of my poetry collection:


In case you didn't hear about it the first time, the collection is filled with personal poems that cover the topics of love, lesbian life, coming out, mental health, politics, queer panic, and all that is in my heart. I'm excited to share this extended poetry collection with you in the upcoming weeks! 

Keep an eye out, and thank you as always for reading my blog and supporting my words <3 



Kindle Edition

Monday, 11 March 2024

 Spring has almost sprung. 

I'm looking forward to the crisp cold air leaving and for the flowers to rebud and the sun making more of a daily appearance. I've been eager for Spring since Winter started. Granted, for me, Spring brings more than just a change of weather; it brings along with it my birthday and my second solo trip. In a few weeks, I will be turning 26 in Rome. 

I'm really hopeful for the month ahead, but before we dive into that, I want to reflect on the month just gone. 

February was... something. Highs and some really dark lows mentally, but I've come out of it very grateful for my life, the people I am surrounded by and all that comes with life. I don't want to focus too much on the doom and gloom, so I highlight some of my favourite moments.

February's highlights:

  • Dad's birthday: the old man turned 60, and we celebrated it as a whole family, siblings, kids and all, and it was so lovely. 
  • Comedy show: I went to see Chloe Petts with a good mate of mine. I hadn't been to a comedy show in years, which was really cool. Chloe is hilarious. 
  • Best friend's birthday: It was one of my best friends' birthdays; we went for sushi and had the most lush time together. In adult life, you don't see your friends as much as you want. Who would have thought, huh?
  • New skill unlocked: A minor win for some but a colossal win for me. I've finally mastered the skill of using chopsticks. It has taken me longer than I'd have liked, but I am chuffed.


Looking ahead into March! 

I'm really excited about the adventures that are waiting for me. We're only two days into the month and off to a good start. I feel like this month will be about personal growth, self-reflection, and becoming even more comfortable with myself. 

On the first, I took myself on a solo date to the cinema to see Wicked Little Letters. Great film, I have a newfound adoration for Olivia Colman. I then took myself for Dumplinga (opted for Long Bao) at my favourite spot in town and ran into wifey and her partner, which was lovely. I went for coffee and started to read a new ARC (When Love Barges In by Bryony Rosehurst). I was gifted it at my favourite coffee spot. Good start to the month.

In the month ahead, I'm looking to really challenge myself. Do more of what I love and work on habit-building. I started building some habits in February but sometimes found it hard to stay consistent. In March, I must continue showing up for myself and staying consistent.

I still love writing my witchy book, so I hope to do more in March, watch more films, and expand my film knowledge. Reading took a bit of a back seat last month, but with the gorgeous new book I'm reading, that isn't the case this month. I neglected the blog last month, but I've got some posts planned, and I'm looking forward to writing and sharing them with you.

I'm looking forward to Rome; it has been on my travel list for a while, and I'm excited to celebrate my birthday there. Kicking off Aries season in Rome, it will be firey, exciting and adventure-packed. I have been planning like crazy. There are so many incredible places and sites to see!

So, March? We're going to be friends. 


Hello March

Saturday, 2 March 2024

 Is February the new January? I ponder as I check my goals from last month, and I have yet to make much of a dent in making them a reality. 

I did have a positive start to the new year; I've seen my best friend for dumplings, watched many new films, read a couple of books, and even made some progress on my witchy novel. I also decided that I will be publishing an e-book version of The Moon is a Lesbian once I figure out how to do that, and I need to write some more poems to add to it, too. So keep an eye out for that.

January was good to me; I had a life-changing epiphany and decided I couldn't wait for things to happen; I needed to be more proactive in getting things done. It sounds obvious, but I had let myself fall into a two-doom hole, and my sister's snap back to reality allowed me to pull myself out of that hole. So, I had the January blues, but I am better for it and have been sorting myself out. 

My January stats:

  • Films watched: 31, my top three being But I'm a Cheerleader, Last Night in Soho and Quiz Lady. I have a Letterboxed account if you fancy seeing what I watch. 
  • Books read: 3.
  • Days journaled: 16 days in total.
  • Words written (witchy novel): 2,000. Total word count so far: 13,000.
  • Meltdowns: The limit does not exist.

I am grateful for the month ahead; we are one month closer to spring. I am over Winter. I need flowers to come back, the sun to be around more and just tolerable outside temperatures. I've set some small goals for the upcoming month, such as reading 3 books, writing 10,000 words for my witchy novel, and writing a few more poems for the new version of The Moon is a Lesbian! 

This post was supposed to go live last week, but I got sick. Thankfully, after much sleep, many films, and lots of Lemsip, I'm back on my feet. I'm writing the first week of February off and starting on my goals on Monday!

Hope you all have a lovely weekend! See you next week with a poem I've been working on!

January... No February

Friday, 9 February 2024

Hiya loves!

The first book review of 2024 is Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree, and what a book to begin the year with! I have seen this book everywhere, finally bit the bullet, and decided to read it; once again, I am sad for waiting so long to pick up this gem of a book. 

 Legends & Lattes is a novel of high fantasy and low stakes. It tells the story of a retired Orc swordswoman who decides to build a coffee shop, and we witness her make it from scratch with some wholesome characters who help her along the way.

It's a cosy fantasy book, a coffee shop with a side story of a cute woman-loving woman romance. If you're looking for something chill, not too dramatic, but enough drama to carry the story, this is the one for you. 

The story is from Viv's perspective. We see her dream of opening a place that sells coffee. She first tried coffee in a distance gnome shop and decided she wanted to make her own place. That's when she comes to the riverside city of Thune and buys the residents of an old stable with a mission to open her own coffee shop. 

Viv meets Cal, a handyman who helps her build the coffee shop from the ground up. He becomes one of her dearest friends and helps her expand and rebuild the shop. He later becomes a close friend. Viv introduces the citizens of Thune to the goodness that is coffee, and she, with the help of her succubus assistant, Tandri, makes a positive reputation for themselves. Tandri and Viv run the business together, falling in love in a slowly-paced romance that gives all the feels. 

Running the coffee shop has downsides, like local mafia-esque Madrigals come knocking for rent as they do everyone in that area. Additionally, in one of Viv's previous adventures, she finds herself getting her hands on a   Scarlvert's stone, a rarity that is said to bring good fortune. A once close friend and now nemesis causes some issues over the stone.

The story is wholesome, to say the least, a tale of friendship, cosiness, and a fantasy world galore. I don't want to give too much away, but it was a lovely read, and I've already started the next one, Bookshops & Bonedust. 


Legends & Lattes

Friday, 19 January 2024

Hello!

We're a little over a week into the new year, and I need to share some thoughts. I am feeling hopeful for the year ahead. I have some plans in my diary and am eager to work on myself. I thought I'd bring you on the journey with me, share my goals and objectives for the year, and just general vibes for the year going forward.

First,  I created this vision board for 2024, and all the images are not my own and are from Pinterest (my current obsession: mood board and Pinterest).


So far, I've got one solo trip booked. I'm taking myself to Rome for my 26th birthday; I decided I'd like to wake up in a different country on my birthday for the first time in my life.  I'm super excited. I've wanted to visit Rome for a long time, and since my solo trip to Croatia was great last year, it's the perfect opportunity to embark on another. 

My goals and objectives for the year ahead:

  •  Finish the first draft of my witchy book.
  • Travel more (Rome and maybe Amsterdam?)
  • Read 20 books.
  • Do more of what makes me happy.
  • Letting go of guilt for thinking about myself.
  • Laugh more. 
  • Watch one film every day!
I am excited for the year ahead, and most importantly, I am grateful for everything I have in my life. I am taking a heart full of gratitude and love for the little moments into the new year!

Hello 2024

Monday, 8 January 2024




 Hello lovelies,

It's that time of year again. We come to the final page of the last chapter. I'd like to have a 2023 wrap-up of all the books I've managed to read over the previous 12 months. My goal for the year started at 40, but after some consideration, I moved it down to 25. 2023 was the year of realising I set myself up to fail a lot with unrealistic goals!

I didn't meet my reading goal once again; it's annoying, but it's clear that I am setting my goals too high. So, next year, I will put my reading goal to the same number of books I read this year, a grand total of 21.

Books I have read in 2023, with ratings:

  • Song of the Forever Rains by E.J Mellow ★★★★★
  • Hiding in Plain Sight by Eoghan Egan ★★★★☆
  • Chilling Adventures of Sabrina #2 by Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa ★★★★★
  • The Moon is a Lesbian by Lauren A McDonald (cheeky self-mention) 
  • The Kiss Curse by Erin Sterling ★★★★☆
  • Saving the Star by Rachel Bowdler ★★★★★
  • Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince ★★★★☆
  • Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston  ★★★★★
  • Lights, Planets, People! by Molly Naylor ★★★★☆
  • Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows ★★★★☆
  • Dirty Laundry by Roxanne Emery & Richard Pink ★★★★★
  • Wild and Wicked Things by Francesca May  ★★☆☆☆
  • The Little Mermaid by Hans Christian Anderson ★★★★★
  • Beyond the Wand by Tom Felton ★★★★☆
  • Girls Like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko ★★★★★
  • The Lost Apothecary by Sarah Penner  ★★★☆☆
  • Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell ★★☆☆☆
  • Dance of a Burning Sea by E.J Mellow ★★★★★
  • The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho ★★★★★
  • Pride: The Story of the LGBTQ Equality Movement by Matthew Todd ★★★★☆
  • Path of Night by Sarah Rees Brennan ★★★★☆
The books I enjoyed the most and stood out this year were Song of the Forever Rainds, Dance of a Burning Sea, Dirty Laundry, Girls Like Girls, and The Alchemist. These were my favourite reads of the year, for sure. I have read some excellent books this year, many of which I 5-starred. 

Although I didn't mean either of my reading goals, I am glad I got to read some amazing books and be introduced to authors I didn't know before.  I’m not sure what book I’ll read first in 2024, but I’ll let you know! 







2023 in Books

Sunday, 31 December 2023

Hello lovelies,

If you have yet to see my many posts over the last month or so on my Instagram page, I did my first solo trip holiday to Croatia. The trip was so incredible that I wrote a blog about it and told you about my favourite moments in Zadar.

Spoiler: watching the sunset at the Sea Organ was my favourite moment! 



 I had such a fabulous time in Zadar. It's a beautiful place with so much history and friendly locals. The trip was five days in total. It was enough time to explore the old town and have a cute beach day. I was there during a heatwave; the coolest during the day it got was 30 degrees. As someone used to 17 degrees at best, it was boiling!

On my first full day, I explored the old town and got to know the bus systems well. I wanted to travel around like a local, and even though at times it was hard- there are no bus times or timetables online, you just had to turn up at a bus stop and see if a bus was due and was going where you needed. It only took me a day or so to work it out.

When you're in the old town, everything is quite close. It was so lovely to have a wander. If I were to go back again, I'd look for accommodation much closer. 

My first bit of Croatian food was a deliciously sweet baked good. I was waiting for a random bus hoping to get somewhere close to town. My hostel was out of the way, but the most gorgeous bakery was across the street. I chose a Makovnjaca, a poppyseed role, and it was terrific. Very sweet, so I couldn't finish it in one go! This was one of the fantastic foods I tried on my trip, although looking back, I don't remember eating a lot of food, but that's because of how hot the weather was. I ate a lot of cold food.

In the old town, I found this cute little spot I returned to every day of my trip: Coffee&Cake Zadar. With the hot weather, I often when in for an iced latte, breakfast, and to cool down with their AC. It was so peaceful to just sit with my Kindle reading and relax. One of my favourite things about doing things independently is that I can mooch around and go at my own pace.

On my first full day in Zadar, I explored the Roman Forum and wandered around, finding cute souvenirs. I picked up some gorgeous notebooks, some artistic magnetic bookmarks, magnets for the fridge at home (naturally), and some other bits that now clutter and brighten up my desk.

My favourite moment in Zadar was watching the sunset on the Sea Organ. So many people came to watch it too, it was beautiful. We are just admiring the view, and it is such a captivating hour of total strangers taking the beauty of the view. It wasn't all sunshine and ice cream. There were a few terrifying moments. Like, getting stranded for a little while and having a panic attack, no one could understand me. That was tough, but I managed it, returned to my hostel, and slept like a baby. After a rough night, the next day, I took the stone beach where I sunbathed, petted a neighbourhood cat and read my book. There were so many lovely cat's around Zadar, I had the pleasure of meeting three, and they were so friendly- it did make me miss Solstice a lot. 


The scariest and perhaps my braves moment of the trip wasn't getting stranded. No, it was climbing the clock tower. It was terrifying. There were 180 steps, a very narrow one-way
entryway, and spiral staircases with only handles on one side. Did I mention I also have a fear of tight spaces and heights? As a slightly mentally unwell plus-size woman, it was a lot to deal with. Climbing the stairs, especially when someone came down them, with only one side with a handrail, caused many panic attacks. I was grateful that every so often, there was a landing you could sit at and look out. I did on every landing because I was very close to breaking down, my heart raced so much, and I honestly thought I would fall at some point. I knew there were many steps beforehand, but I didn't anticipate the small spaces or steep, steep stone stairs.

 Had it been any other time I wasn't feeling so determined, I would have turned back and not bothered. But the view from the top of the Clock Tower was legendary, and I had to see it for myself. It was such a relief when I reached the top. With my heart pounding, I was so proud of myself for facing several fears, and the view was most definitely worth it. 




These are some of my favourite photos I took from the Clock Tower. Even though I was scared and had several panic attacks on the way up (and back down), it was worth it. 

When the days got too hot, I visited Gray Bar for a cocktail or two. It was so lovely to just relax, people watch and cool down. With every order (from anywhere), I got a glass of water and ice to stay hydrated. In the past, I've not done so well in hot countries- I'm very prone to heatstroke, but I took all the necessary precautions this time around, and I was fine.

If you've not made a solo trip before, I'd recommend planning some places you'd like to return to. I had done some social media scanning and had a lot of what was out there. It helped a lot. When you visit a new place, it's easy to become overwhelmed; having a rough idea of what you want to do and places you'd like to see can help with that. 

Zadar is the perfect place for first-time travellers. It's so beautiful and quite calm. The locals were lovely, and the people who ran the hostel I was staying in were ever so sweet! They shared with me the shortcuts and recommendations on cool places. Everyone I spoke to was charming. 

My spontaneous three-week turnaround trip was a success. Even now, a month later, I feel so much more relaxed and not so desperate for another holiday. I've learned from my trip to be more prepared for public transport, always do the scary thing because it could lead to something amazing, and try to find closer accommodation to the city centre. I didn't mind staying in a hostel, the one I was in, I only had one roommate, and we barely saw each other, but I did struggle to sleep the entire trip. I kept having nightmares every night, so when I plan to make another solo trip, I might skip the hostel and do a hotel or apartment for a bit of peace of mind. 

I am looking into making more solo trips around Europe next Summer. I want to visit Italy, France, Prague, and wherever my heart takes me! If you'd like to see more of my holiday snaps, or video content from my trip, I have a highlight and some feed content on my Instagram page!


Have a lovely day, and see you soon!

Moments in Zadar

Monday, 28 August 2023