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Hello lovelies,

If you have yet to see my many posts over the last month or so on my Instagram page, I did my first solo trip holiday to Croatia. The trip was so incredible that I wrote a blog about it and told you about my favourite moments in Zadar.

Spoiler: watching the sunset at the Sea Organ was my favourite moment! 



 I had such a fabulous time in Zadar. It's a beautiful place with so much history and friendly locals. The trip was five days in total. It was enough time to explore the old town and have a cute beach day. I was there during a heatwave; the coolest during the day it got was 30 degrees. As someone used to 17 degrees at best, it was boiling!

On my first full day, I explored the old town and got to know the bus systems well. I wanted to travel around like a local, and even though at times it was hard- there are no bus times or timetables online, you just had to turn up at a bus stop and see if a bus was due and was going where you needed. It only took me a day or so to work it out.

When you're in the old town, everything is quite close. It was so lovely to have a wander. If I were to go back again, I'd look for accommodation much closer. 

My first bit of Croatian food was a deliciously sweet baked good. I was waiting for a random bus hoping to get somewhere close to town. My hostel was out of the way, but the most gorgeous bakery was across the street. I chose a Makovnjaca, a poppyseed role, and it was terrific. Very sweet, so I couldn't finish it in one go! This was one of the fantastic foods I tried on my trip, although looking back, I don't remember eating a lot of food, but that's because of how hot the weather was. I ate a lot of cold food.

In the old town, I found this cute little spot I returned to every day of my trip: Coffee&Cake Zadar. With the hot weather, I often when in for an iced latte, breakfast, and to cool down with their AC. It was so peaceful to just sit with my Kindle reading and relax. One of my favourite things about doing things independently is that I can mooch around and go at my own pace.

On my first full day in Zadar, I explored the Roman Forum and wandered around, finding cute souvenirs. I picked up some gorgeous notebooks, some artistic magnetic bookmarks, magnets for the fridge at home (naturally), and some other bits that now clutter and brighten up my desk.

My favourite moment in Zadar was watching the sunset on the Sea Organ. So many people came to watch it too, it was beautiful. We are just admiring the view, and it is such a captivating hour of total strangers taking the beauty of the view. It wasn't all sunshine and ice cream. There were a few terrifying moments. Like, getting stranded for a little while and having a panic attack, no one could understand me. That was tough, but I managed it, returned to my hostel, and slept like a baby. After a rough night, the next day, I took the stone beach where I sunbathed, petted a neighbourhood cat and read my book. There were so many lovely cat's around Zadar, I had the pleasure of meeting three, and they were so friendly- it did make me miss Solstice a lot. 


The scariest and perhaps my braves moment of the trip wasn't getting stranded. No, it was climbing the clock tower. It was terrifying. There were 180 steps, a very narrow one-way
entryway, and spiral staircases with only handles on one side. Did I mention I also have a fear of tight spaces and heights? As a slightly mentally unwell plus-size woman, it was a lot to deal with. Climbing the stairs, especially when someone came down them, with only one side with a handrail, caused many panic attacks. I was grateful that every so often, there was a landing you could sit at and look out. I did on every landing because I was very close to breaking down, my heart raced so much, and I honestly thought I would fall at some point. I knew there were many steps beforehand, but I didn't anticipate the small spaces or steep, steep stone stairs.

 Had it been any other time I wasn't feeling so determined, I would have turned back and not bothered. But the view from the top of the Clock Tower was legendary, and I had to see it for myself. It was such a relief when I reached the top. With my heart pounding, I was so proud of myself for facing several fears, and the view was most definitely worth it. 




These are some of my favourite photos I took from the Clock Tower. Even though I was scared and had several panic attacks on the way up (and back down), it was worth it. 

When the days got too hot, I visited Gray Bar for a cocktail or two. It was so lovely to just relax, people watch and cool down. With every order (from anywhere), I got a glass of water and ice to stay hydrated. In the past, I've not done so well in hot countries- I'm very prone to heatstroke, but I took all the necessary precautions this time around, and I was fine.

If you've not made a solo trip before, I'd recommend planning some places you'd like to return to. I had done some social media scanning and had a lot of what was out there. It helped a lot. When you visit a new place, it's easy to become overwhelmed; having a rough idea of what you want to do and places you'd like to see can help with that. 

Zadar is the perfect place for first-time travellers. It's so beautiful and quite calm. The locals were lovely, and the people who ran the hostel I was staying in were ever so sweet! They shared with me the shortcuts and recommendations on cool places. Everyone I spoke to was charming. 

My spontaneous three-week turnaround trip was a success. Even now, a month later, I feel so much more relaxed and not so desperate for another holiday. I've learned from my trip to be more prepared for public transport, always do the scary thing because it could lead to something amazing, and try to find closer accommodation to the city centre. I didn't mind staying in a hostel, the one I was in, I only had one roommate, and we barely saw each other, but I did struggle to sleep the entire trip. I kept having nightmares every night, so when I plan to make another solo trip, I might skip the hostel and do a hotel or apartment for a bit of peace of mind. 

I am looking into making more solo trips around Europe next Summer. I want to visit Italy, France, Prague, and wherever my heart takes me! If you'd like to see more of my holiday snaps, or video content from my trip, I have a highlight and some feed content on my Instagram page!


Have a lovely day, and see you soon!

Moments in Zadar

Monday, 28 August 2023

Hiya lovelies,

It's been a minute since I've done a life update, and since I've got an exciting week ahead, I decided to come and write about it. I will head out of the country on my first solo trip abroad in a few days. When did I decide this? Just under three weeks ago. It's impulsive, I know, but I have been so eager to travel, and this year has been lowkey tragic and quite frankly, I refuse to allow the whole year to be a loss. 

I'll be heading over to Croatia for my first-ever solo trip abroad. It's not an overly long trip, just five days, but it's the perfect opportunity to dip my toes into solo travelling. I want to do a much longer travelling stint around Europe next Summer, and this is the ideal opportunity to see how I do. I'll be staying in hostels, exploring and taking the world in. 

Within three weeks, I've had to do so much preparation, from seeing if the country is LGBTQ+ friendly to ensuring I don't get my period while I'm away and making the best travel-inspired playlist for the flights. I opted for the free luggage option, which is essentially one bag, and oh boy, has it been a challenge to fit everything into one flight-friendly bag. I've had the most issues with liquids, so many hair products, shower and hygiene bits, and sun cream- getting them all into one small bag was challenging. I have managed to master packing lightly, though I really had to be succinct in my options. 

I've never been more prepared for anything in my whole life.

I'm looking forward to watching the sun set and rise in another country, exploring and trying new cuisine and enjoying new cultures. I have a couple things on my to-do list, like exploring the old town, visiting The Organ, and having some downtime on the beach with my Kindle- my chosen holiday read is Girls Like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko. I've been feeling off balance for a while now, and an adventure and some much-needed time to myself will help me rebalance and feel more like myself. I've been so eager to get away, and I saw cheap flights and thought: when was the last time I did something spontaneous? So, I jumped at the chance.

This is not to say I don't have some worries, I've never stayed in a hostel before, but that's part of the lifestyle of solo travelling. The best way to travel is to keep it as inexpensive as possible, and accommodation can be expensive! Equally, if I'm not that into staying in hostels, I can plan accordingly for my 2024 trip. I am excited; above all else, my soul needs this trip!

No doubt I'll be doing some writing whilst I'm away, and I'll be taking lots of pictures, so expect a blog upon my return!

Preparing to Solo Travel

Thursday, 13 July 2023

She thought about space and how the stars shine together unknowingly being wished upon. She wondered of worlds other than her own. She thought about all the people she hasn't met and all the animals she hasn't greeted. So much more is out there she thinks, and how her brain takes her to the places she has been and her heart yearns for places she does not know. She thinks of the foods she hasn't had the pleasure of tasting, and the wines that will make her wince. She thinks about the quietness in space, would it be more enjoyable than this white walled cage? Would she be having the time of her life floating about in the stratosphere, mindlessly she drops her pencil, she does not pick it back up, instead, she stands up and leaves.

mindlessly

Sunday, 7 May 2017

This morning we woke up a wet and rainy Brighton, this did not dampen my mood or eagerness for the day ahead. Today was not only my second day in  Brighton but the main purpose of my trip; the applicant day for the university. So, I was eager. Got ready and what not in the hotel and set out for the station.  The rain did throw a little curve, so we got the bus. To the station. To the side is the view from a Brighton bus stand. 

Before heading to the University, we stopped for a coffee. The place was beautiful, as you can see in the picture below. It felt so picturesque, I adored the many photographs placed around the little cafe. We mainly entered the place for shelter from the rain as we had time to kill before visiting the university. 
Naturally, we had to check out some vintage shops. I got a few Tye Dye Tshirts that I am very in love with. They're beautiful, and I think I can see myself pretty much spending all my money in the future in vintage shops in Brighton, and I already know I will not regret a single purchase. We grabbed a coffee from the station before getting on the station to Falmer, the University Campus my course is at.
The weather was still gloom but I was definitely still over the moon. Below is the picture of part of the University. The girl in front I met, and turns out we are doing the same course in Septemeber, she was one of three people I made friends with on the trip. I fell in love with the University, the grounds were cool, I really liked the accomodation, I can see myself being really happy there. The lecturers of my course were enthusaistic and it was clear they love that they do, which for me is really important. There is nothing worse than having a teacher who hates their job and doesn't put as much as they can into their lessons. I liked the course content, and I am so excited that I have firmed The University of Brighton. It has motivated me to pick up my work ethic, hopefully today isn't the last day my feet meet the grounds of the University.

After the splendid day at the University, we of course went for a cuppa and cake in the lanes before retreating to our hotel room for a little nap. Whilst we were chatting and enjoying the Brighton air, I noticed students drinking coffee at their laptops chatting to each other, and I felt so excited. That could be me!
After our stop at the cafe we further explored the lanes and then we retreated to our hotel. We had naps and freshened up and then head out to the pier. Where I think I spent the majority of my time so far. The Pier is gorgeous though.

After a lovely time taking many pictures, playing on lots of amusements we decided to go for food to a place opposite.  We had drinks in here last night, and tonight we decided to dine as well as drinks.

And now I am trying to force myself to stay away to finish this blog post. It's been such a good trip, I do not want to return back to Newcastle tomorrow.

Brighton Day 2

Wednesday, 22 March 2017

Last night I took a coach to London. Being a student of course I want as cheap travel as possible. So 7 hours on a coach to London... oh boy. Barely slept, cramp everywhere but I felt alive with London as soon as my case rolled on the pavement.
We were in London for an hour or so, getting food and sorted before getting on the hour train to Brighton. Which was far more pleasant than the coach, I did my makeup eat wonderful cupcakes we bought in London.  The closer the train was getting to Brighton the more excited I felt.







Leading up to my firsr trip to Brighton, everyone told me I'd love it and it will be amazing. I hadn't quite believed them. Until I stepped out of Brighton Station, and I have never felt so at home in a place I've never seen before. It was love at first sight, and it became even more so when we explored. Wall murials and art on every corner, shops alive with colour and unique qualities. My soul found its home.
We explored coffee shops and food places, we visited The Lanes, which I see myself spending all my time (as well as money) during University. Brighton is like no other place, it wasn't fast like London, it was chilled and welcoming.
I met someone new, another student who I connected with and it felt amazing. With Brighton I'm not that nervous wreck I am in other cities, I'm not that self concious person in the city I've come from, I feel so relaxed and confident and unique. I have never felt this free or good before, I think Brighton may just be the best thing for me.
We visited the pier, and amusements. Pubs and endless shops. We trullt explored today, and as I walked through the streets each step I knew I was home. The hotel is lovely we are staying in, spacious and spectacular. We've been for drinks and just had such a good first day. I can see myself living here for a long time. It's picturesque and the creative vibes radiate through  me, I am so excited for the future.
Tomorrow, on the cards we have University of Brighton applicant day (the main reason we came down) where I will meet other students, the lecturers, and get tours. I am super excited! After this we plan on shopping as well as stroll along the pebbled beach.  Check back in tomorrow, I am having an early night since I haven't slept much within the last 48 hours!

Brighton Day 1

Tuesday, 21 March 2017


Today is the day the girls and I travelled from our hometown (Newcastle) to Leeds. W've been planning this trip for a couple month, this trip being a chance for us all to have fun and let loose from college life and our daily norms. Also this time round we have two more people with (unlike the Edinburgh trip in August) Corren and Aiehsa. Today we have had the best time, non stop eating, getting ready going for a meal, having drinks ordering takeout, doing the cha cha slide in our hote room. We our having a blast, and below our some of the many pictures we've taken.




Leeds

Thursday, 22 December 2016

Day of arrival

Trip to Edinburgh

Wednesday, 24 August 2016

The heart wants what the heart wants... and hers wanted the waves. The waves that drift her to adventures, and wash up her dreams amongst foreign shores. Her heart yearned for the blue wonders that the ocean offered her, her thoughts belonged to the salty waters. Her life on land was like a cage, only amongst the waves she would ever be truly free. Her feet may be on land but her heart was at sea.

Waves

Tuesday, 16 August 2016

Let me take you guys back to the beginning of October 2014, I went to Holland with my old college on a Comenius for five days. I want to tell you guys about one day in particular, I did keep a diary at the time and I wanted to share those diary entries with you but, let's just say I was a bit of an asshole and yeah I can't show them. But I can sum up some of the days I perhaps stick a very quotations in from my diary. I will do this in two parts, I'll do the first three days and then tomorrow (Sunday) I will post the rest since I am not doing Weekly Favourites this week!
First of all, the day before going to Holland (4th October 2014) I had a little bike accident, I hadn't ridden a bike in years so I went out in the woods on the bike with my dad and well I ended up crashing into a huge metal gate, which affected my entire week, because I was injured. They weren't bad injuries or anything nothing was broken, but my stomach and like private area were badly swollen and bruised like I wasn't aware down there could even go purple nevermind ache as much as it did - wearing tight jeans was a no go!
So the day came (5th Oct.) and it was a day of firsts for me, it was my first time abroad, like leaving the UK and my first time on a plane, it wasn't my first time away from my parents as I went to Wales (disaster!) but this was probably the furthest. 'The first ever plane ride, it was fascinating. Staring out the window seeing the earth move beneath us' so yeah that happened but what I didn't mention was the popping of ears, like damn even though I was warned about it I was not ready! Also the flight we were on we got these cute little snacks, like a tiny pack of plain Doritos like crisp and the tiniest can of lemonade ever, it was adorable. I tried reading Bridget but I was way too excited! We landed in Amsterdam which actually the airport is pretty big and impressive! Everyone seemed loved and then we got the coach to the hotel which was called de halve maan hotel bovenkarspel  I think, it was small and lovely but it wasn't near Amsterdam.  So we got to the hotel, where we sorted our stuff and then they sprung this thing on us where we had to ride to this restaurant, bare in mind my injury and Dutch bikes are completely different to English bikes, it's like a whole other contraption, after and hour of trying my best and being in pain and falling into rose bushes I ended up being driven to the place with another girl. Of course, I felt crap and that I felt I let everyone down. We got the Italian restaurant which was lovely, and we got to meet the Swedish people who also ventured to Holland.  We were out pretty late, and I think that night a guy had an accident on the road on the bike or something. My first night was terrible I have to admit and here is the last thing I wrote in my diary that night 'I loved the idea of Holland, but I am in a whole new country and I want to go home! It's impossible :( help me, I am falling apart!' -  I do speak to my diary as if it's a person.
Improvement! (6th Oct.) I woke up feeling motivated and one of the staff members that came with us Flynn, he helped me try and improve the whole bike situation, as I didn't want to give up and feel like I am getting special treatment, admittedly I also didn't want to seem weak. Being the nice supportive teacher he is, he did the 'believe in yourself' thing which admittedly he isn't the first teacher to give me that talk, my history teacher was constantly telling me in high school, and I've recently had it too. I am working on it but yeah back to Holland. Even though I was making small improvements I wasn't ready and ended up getting driven to our next place. Which was the Dutch high school where I swear to god is the best high school, it was so vibrant it didn't feel real. It was colourful, and kind of something you would see those teenage American movies but like so much better. It was amazing, we got a tour of the school and then we actually went around the city with a team. Where we had to go places and learn things, it was very touristy but in the best way. I met some lovely people, this one guy actually helped me a lot since obviously I couldn't ride he walked me to the museum and it was so lovely because he didn't have to, and he was just so lovely, everyone was so lovely. I also bonded with people from my own college, like people I hadn't ever communicated with until then. A girl, we worked on the bike thing more which was really kind of her. We then had a Chinese buffet, which was so beautiful like the place itself. There were cute dangling lights, amazing artwork on the walls, we got to be with good company and it was delightful. We got to see some beautiful Holland sites, the second day was definitely better as you can see from this extract 'Holland is beautiful, so many sites, pictures, selfies and people. Everything is stunning, I love it. Everything and every place feels like a movie. I am in love with Holland!'

Tune back in tomorrow probably about 7PM for more of my Holland adventures like Amsterdam, drama and another first!

Holland (2014)

Sunday, 15 May 2016

Roads. They seem never ending, they just go on and on. How long would it take me to get to the end, and where would it take me; the edge of the earth perhaps? Maybe there is no end, it could just go on and on.
You can carry on straight ahead, go where the concrete lines want to take you, or you can stray from the main route; take the next left and maybe a right then straight on.
Signs pass in a bur, maybe sometimes we know which direction to move to, or perhaps the roads are just too stubborn to even consider directions.
Roads are like that sometimes. You're alone, maybe by choice or you've been desserted. The roads are lonely, miles into the unknown. You're either taken to somewhere new or you just carry on going; on and on.
Maybe life is like a road, sometimes you know where you're going, but a lot of the time you have no idea!

Roads

Saturday, 29 August 2015