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 Hello, flowers!

This week, I want to share my favourite Pride so far! If you've been around a while or one of my very kind friends who supports my writing and blog, you will know I'm no stranger to Pride. I've been attending Pride since I was 14. As the L in LGBTQ+, I enjoy coming together with my community; this year was no different. Well, it was different. I attended Pride with my partner, and this was her first Pride!

I've only been to Newcastle and Brighton Pride, but both are epic! Every July has a three-day Pride event; my favourite day is Saturday. Saturday afternoon kicks off the Pride activities with a parade from the Civic Centre. It's my favourite part of Pride; it's filled with people being their true selves and enjoying who they are. Some people even bring along their furry friends for support. The parade is beautiful, flags galore, people cheering and seeing, and it's magnificent. The parade includes brands/businesses and people coming together to show Pride. It is a riot, but one in which we all get to be true ourselves and enjoy being around our community. No violence, just love. 

One of the things I love about my hometown is how people come together for the parade, shops put up displays and dances, and people cheer with allyship. I was fortunate to grow up in a city so accepting and diverse. There have been very few times I've ever been made to feel uncomfortable about my sexuality in my town. Pride, especially, has always made me cry for happiness. 

So, Charmine and I grabbed a coffee before we entered the parade. Coffee is needed for all the singing and dancing, and we did sing and dance!

Every year, I try to make the parade, even if it's the only thing I do. It simply fills me with so much joy and appreciation. I made more effort this year than I usually do; I was repping a Mason Denver non-binary receptionist of hell t-shirt, a huge lesbian flag I wore over my shoulders, and a rainbow flag on my cheek, which matched with Charmine.

We wore our rainbows and even blessed other people with some, too! Every soul is a kind of Pride. It is truly a spectacular community; each year, it always amazes me how incredible Newcastle is. 

I've always gone to Pride with my friends, but attending Pride with my partner was another lovely experience. She got to see Newcastle in all of its glory and beautiful support. Hundreds of people are in the Pride parade, and maybe even more are standing along the route, cheering it on. It's only an hour max, but it's fabulous. 

Pride events were spread out all over the city centre this year, you could go different places for different events. After the parade, we sat in the sun near the grassy civic area. I was actually interviewed by a student; they asked me questions about my sexuality and experience of Newcastle and Pride. It was wholesome, and I enjoyed talking about the past and present Pride events; plus, it was for their dissertation project; I remember all too well how strenuous they are, and any help really goes a long way. After the interview, I was told I gave good answers and spoke the most from any other interview- I wonder if this was a good thing, but I'll take it as a compliment. 

It was fabulous! I'm glad I got to take Charmine to her first Pride. Here's to our first of many together!


Newcastle Pride 2024

Wednesday, 13 November 2024

 Is February the new January? I ponder as I check my goals from last month, and I have yet to make much of a dent in making them a reality. 

I did have a positive start to the new year; I've seen my best friend for dumplings, watched many new films, read a couple of books, and even made some progress on my witchy novel. I also decided that I will be publishing an e-book version of The Moon is a Lesbian once I figure out how to do that, and I need to write some more poems to add to it, too. So keep an eye out for that.

January was good to me; I had a life-changing epiphany and decided I couldn't wait for things to happen; I needed to be more proactive in getting things done. It sounds obvious, but I had let myself fall into a two-doom hole, and my sister's snap back to reality allowed me to pull myself out of that hole. So, I had the January blues, but I am better for it and have been sorting myself out. 

My January stats:

  • Films watched: 31, my top three being But I'm a Cheerleader, Last Night in Soho and Quiz Lady. I have a Letterboxed account if you fancy seeing what I watch. 
  • Books read: 3.
  • Days journaled: 16 days in total.
  • Words written (witchy novel): 2,000. Total word count so far: 13,000.
  • Meltdowns: The limit does not exist.

I am grateful for the month ahead; we are one month closer to spring. I am over Winter. I need flowers to come back, the sun to be around more and just tolerable outside temperatures. I've set some small goals for the upcoming month, such as reading 3 books, writing 10,000 words for my witchy novel, and writing a few more poems for the new version of The Moon is a Lesbian! 

This post was supposed to go live last week, but I got sick. Thankfully, after much sleep, many films, and lots of Lemsip, I'm back on my feet. I'm writing the first week of February off and starting on my goals on Monday!

Hope you all have a lovely weekend! See you next week with a poem I've been working on!

January... No February

Friday, 9 February 2024




 Hello lovelies,

It's that time of year again. We come to the final page of the last chapter. I'd like to have a 2023 wrap-up of all the books I've managed to read over the previous 12 months. My goal for the year started at 40, but after some consideration, I moved it down to 25. 2023 was the year of realising I set myself up to fail a lot with unrealistic goals!

I didn't meet my reading goal once again; it's annoying, but it's clear that I am setting my goals too high. So, next year, I will put my reading goal to the same number of books I read this year, a grand total of 21.

Books I have read in 2023, with ratings:

  • Song of the Forever Rains by E.J Mellow ★★★★★
  • Hiding in Plain Sight by Eoghan Egan ★★★★☆
  • Chilling Adventures of Sabrina #2 by Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa ★★★★★
  • The Moon is a Lesbian by Lauren A McDonald (cheeky self-mention) 
  • The Kiss Curse by Erin Sterling ★★★★☆
  • Saving the Star by Rachel Bowdler ★★★★★
  • Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince ★★★★☆
  • Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston  ★★★★★
  • Lights, Planets, People! by Molly Naylor ★★★★☆
  • Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows ★★★★☆
  • Dirty Laundry by Roxanne Emery & Richard Pink ★★★★★
  • Wild and Wicked Things by Francesca May  ★★☆☆☆
  • The Little Mermaid by Hans Christian Anderson ★★★★★
  • Beyond the Wand by Tom Felton ★★★★☆
  • Girls Like Girls by Hayley Kiyoko ★★★★★
  • The Lost Apothecary by Sarah Penner  ★★★☆☆
  • Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell ★★☆☆☆
  • Dance of a Burning Sea by E.J Mellow ★★★★★
  • The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho ★★★★★
  • Pride: The Story of the LGBTQ Equality Movement by Matthew Todd ★★★★☆
  • Path of Night by Sarah Rees Brennan ★★★★☆
The books I enjoyed the most and stood out this year were Song of the Forever Rainds, Dance of a Burning Sea, Dirty Laundry, Girls Like Girls, and The Alchemist. These were my favourite reads of the year, for sure. I have read some excellent books this year, many of which I 5-starred. 

Although I didn't mean either of my reading goals, I am glad I got to read some amazing books and be introduced to authors I didn't know before.  I’m not sure what book I’ll read first in 2024, but I’ll let you know! 







2023 in Books

Sunday, 31 December 2023