Hello, flowers!

This post is a little late (only by 9 months... oops).

Last year was a busy year indeed it has been. In my last post, we visited Manchester. I didn't mention that during Charmine and me's trip to Manchester, we had a side quest trip to The Lake District. A cute and very scenic day trip!

We got a Rabbie's tour bus and made our way up!

Our itinerary of the day was:

  • First top at Bowness: wander around the town & lake cruise
  • Visit Grasmere: home of Wordsworth Dove Cottage & legendary gingerbread
  • Enjoy views of southern Windermere towards Coniston Water.
  • Arrive at Hawkshead, a quaint village and home of the Grammar School, where Wordsworth attended.

 We started the day on the lake, a lovely boat tour of Windermere.


It was beautiful! As we toured the lake, the guide told stories about its history. We took many pictures and videos. 











The Lake Destrict

Tuesday, 31 December 2024

 Hello, flowers!


This year is certainly one filled with travel! Rome, York, Dublin, and now Manchester! Yes, Charmine and I went on a UK holiday to Manchester in August. In the past, we've both briefly visited Manchester (separately) but wanted to explore the city properly. It was our first trip as a couple, and Manchester did not disappoint us at all!

We spent four days exploring Manchester. During that time, we drank lots of coffee, ate so much good food, and laughed a lot! Manchester is beautiful, filled with life, amazing artwork, and lovely people. 

On our first night, we went to a cocktail bar, The Wash House, which a good friend recommended. The cocktails were outstanding! When you enter the building it looks like a laundry mat, it's very cool. We tried a bunch of cocktails - all of which were very aesthetically pleasing! Both Charmine and I really enjoyed ourselves - neither of us is a big alcohol drinker, but they were so fun, and each cocktail had its own little narrative and backstory. It was an experience!

Before we left, we went to the bathroom, which had an epic disco ball. We clicked the button, and it was just so fun to see the room light up. The bar was so well thought out; it was more than just a place to drink; it was an interactive experience. 


One of our favourite spots was Afflecks, the infamous shopping place with the best vibes. We explored each floor, entered all the great indie shops, and even stopped at the photo booth!

I had to take a picture of some of the iconic things, the stairs, the outside artwork and a very cool glasses stand. We had coffee in Afflecks, too, and I enjoyed our many coffee stops during this trip.

I remember my first time visiting Afflecks, so I knew I just had to show Charmine - of course, it didn't disappoint.










We visited EveryMan cinema, we are huge cinema go-ers so we thought we'd catch a film while we were there. We saw Deadpool & Wolverine, it was funny. After the movie, we walked through a gallery and really explored the best we could. See some of the cool snaps I got during our trip:










































Some of my favourite couple photos from our trip:














Manchester was an absolute blast! It was filled with lovely people (as expected) and is definitely a LGBTQ+ friendly city. If you're looking for a vibrant UK city to explore, I'd highly recommend it!

Manchester 2024

Thursday, 19 December 2024

 I write words 

Otherwise, they'll destroy me from the inside out.


That's how I know I was made to be a writer,

the words press against my insides,

demanding to be felt and determined to be set free.


Once the sentence has been strung,

the sentiment laced in between words,

they burn into my skin - ready to be eternalised.


To write is to tear parts of myself 

and stitch them into a poem or a story.


Once the words are set free,

they are no longer mine,

they are no longer words of a writer,

but words to a reader.



I write words

Sunday, 17 November 2024

 Hello, flowers!

This week, I want to share my favourite Pride so far! If you've been around a while or one of my very kind friends who supports my writing and blog, you will know I'm no stranger to Pride. I've been attending Pride since I was 14. As the L in LGBTQ+, I enjoy coming together with my community; this year was no different. Well, it was different. I attended Pride with my partner, and this was her first Pride!

I've only been to Newcastle and Brighton Pride, but both are epic! Every July has a three-day Pride event; my favourite day is Saturday. Saturday afternoon kicks off the Pride activities with a parade from the Civic Centre. It's my favourite part of Pride; it's filled with people being their true selves and enjoying who they are. Some people even bring along their furry friends for support. The parade is beautiful, flags galore, people cheering and seeing, and it's magnificent. The parade includes brands/businesses and people coming together to show Pride. It is a riot, but one in which we all get to be true ourselves and enjoy being around our community. No violence, just love. 

One of the things I love about my hometown is how people come together for the parade, shops put up displays and dances, and people cheer with allyship. I was fortunate to grow up in a city so accepting and diverse. There have been very few times I've ever been made to feel uncomfortable about my sexuality in my town. Pride, especially, has always made me cry for happiness. 

So, Charmine and I grabbed a coffee before we entered the parade. Coffee is needed for all the singing and dancing, and we did sing and dance!

Every year, I try to make the parade, even if it's the only thing I do. It simply fills me with so much joy and appreciation. I made more effort this year than I usually do; I was repping a Mason Denver non-binary receptionist of hell t-shirt, a huge lesbian flag I wore over my shoulders, and a rainbow flag on my cheek, which matched with Charmine.

We wore our rainbows and even blessed other people with some, too! Every soul is a kind of Pride. It is truly a spectacular community; each year, it always amazes me how incredible Newcastle is. 

I've always gone to Pride with my friends, but attending Pride with my partner was another lovely experience. She got to see Newcastle in all of its glory and beautiful support. Hundreds of people are in the Pride parade, and maybe even more are standing along the route, cheering it on. It's only an hour max, but it's fabulous. 

Pride events were spread out all over the city centre this year, you could go different places for different events. After the parade, we sat in the sun near the grassy civic area. I was actually interviewed by a student; they asked me questions about my sexuality and experience of Newcastle and Pride. It was wholesome, and I enjoyed talking about the past and present Pride events; plus, it was for their dissertation project; I remember all too well how strenuous they are, and any help really goes a long way. After the interview, I was told I gave good answers and spoke the most from any other interview- I wonder if this was a good thing, but I'll take it as a compliment. 

It was fabulous! I'm glad I got to take Charmine to her first Pride. Here's to our first of many together!


Newcastle Pride 2024

Wednesday, 13 November 2024

 Hello lovelies!

It has been a little while; I've been working, going on adventures, and writing! I've been meaning to write about my most recent solo trip. I'm a few weeks  (maybe more than a few) late, but better late than never.

In July, I embarked on my third solo trip to Dublin, which is a little closer to home (somewhat). I spent a few days in Dublin and had the most refreshing time, including the quick one-hour flight.

The whole reason for my visit to Dublin, which I'm sure no one is surprised about, was to visit a library—to do the Book of Kells tour, to be exact. 



I booked a ticket and took a self-guided audio tour. If you know me, you'll know I appreciate libraries. The Kells library may be my favourite one yet. I enjoyed wandering through the different areas and learning about the beautiful history.








The whole reason I visited Dublin was the Kells library; it was a magical experience. The library is currently in restoration, so it wasn't in its full glory, but what was there was still mind-glowingly beautiful. I simply cannot resist a library.




The tour wasn't my only bookish adventure. I also visited a few Oscar Wilde spots, nosed in book windows, and wrote in coffee shops. It was a fabulous writing trip, and Dublin didn't disappoint in inspiring me.




There was something special about visiting a place home to some of the greatest writers we've ever known. If you've been around a while, you will know I don't just visit places for books; I'm a coffee fiend, too. Dublin had some fantastic coffee spots; the coffee below is a masterpiece from Bean Hive. 

The coffee was so pretty that I simply didn't want to drink it. The design clearly took great effort. It was a little warm but still delicious when I folded and drank it. 

I went to some different coffee spots in Dublin, including Shoe Lane Coffee, Cloud Picker Coffee, and Butters Chocolate Cafe. These were some great spots to write and also settle with my Kindle. I was reading a Bridgerton book at the time. 


I really enjoyed wandering through the streets of Dublin. I finally ticked off having my first Guinness in Ireland off my bucket list! I'm not overly a fan, but I enjoyed the experience of being in a friendly Irish pub. The locals were lovely—even if there was an England league sports game of sorts going on. Everyone I met was lovely, and the Irish accent will forever be one of my favourites. I hope to visit other areas of Ireland, but now that I've done Dublin, I'd like to explore further. It helps that it doesn't take very long to get there, and it's under an hour on a plane. Quicker than getting a train from Newcastle to London or Newcastle to Edinburgh. 

If you want to see more photos, I have a lot more Dublin and other content on my Instagram: @Writingmyheart.

My next post will be covering my best Pride yet!









Dublin: Book of Kells Tour & More

Saturday, 5 October 2024

As Autumn knocks on the door, I reflect on the Summer. It has been an eventful one. I met my good friend Meg in June in York, a quaint and beautiful town. Before her train arrived, I had the most blissful breakfast, drinking coffee and writing by the river. 

York was filled with inspiration and some excellent coffee spots. Once I had breakfast, I had such a lovely walk through the museum gardens. There was this special moment when a young girl was hand-feeding a group of squirrels. They weren't afraid of her, and she was so kind to them. It felt like a moment from a Disney film. I sat in awe, and it was one of those moments where you really appreciate life's beauties. 

Once I met with Meg, we explored the wonderful town. York has many interesting shops, the sun was at its best, and we visited a few cute spots. It was nice to be reunited and see somewhere we had never visited. We had these fantastic treats from a nice little place called Bao in the shambles. 



We were also grateful for the seating areas anyone can pull up at; York is one of those chilled places. There were many people, but it's no surprise it was busy, especially considering how cute the place is. 





We also visited this really cool ghost shop, The York Ghost Merchants. The staff dressed up; it felt theatrical and was just good fun. Naturally, we had to purchase some ghosts to take home:


York is genuinely a joy to visit, perfect for a day trip. Around every corner, there was inspiration. Although I didn't plan to write (even though I carry my notebook everywhere), I did feel inspired and did some really good writing. I could see myself visiting again if I'm ever short of inspiration.

A Day in York

Saturday, 14 September 2024


 Won't you have a coffee with me?

Sit across from me and let me learn your soul,

here, unlock my heart and take the key,

I dare you to make me feel whole.


Sip at your coffee and let me gaze into your eyes. 

Welcome to my brain that is a storm;

falling in love with me probably isn't that wise,

Have coffee with me, and let's make this a home.


Coffee with me

Tuesday, 27 August 2024

 Hiya lovelies,

I may or may not be back in the swing of writing and posting again (hallelujah). It has been a hot minute since I shared a book review, and to be honest, it has been a hot minute since a book moved me enough to write a book review. 

Alas, a book has shaken me to the core. I actually came across this book in the Feel Good Club in Manchester. They had a small collection of books, and this one caught my attention: Bodies Are Cool by Tyler Feder.


This wholesome short read was absolutely refreshing. Bodies Are Cool is a cheerful love-your-body picture book for preschoolers, but I believe every person who has ever had a negative thought about their body would benefit from this gem. I have since bought myself a copy and plan to read it to all my nieces and nephews. 

The beautiful illustrations show bodies of all types, shapes and sizes. The book is filled with unique individuals and truly celebrates all bodies. The representation in this book is phenomenal and just beautiful. I even found myself in the pages:


I absolutely adored reading this book with my partner; it is so wholesome and genuinely made my soul happy. I simply want everybody in my life to read this book!


Bodies Are Cool

Saturday, 24 August 2024